After trying a bunch more times, I realized it seems like my issue is every time I put in the server internal IP port, RMI Registration Port, RMI port and steam query port into the local server and server neighbor (using intstructions off the wiki page) it doesn't seem to be saving. It looks like it is working, I started the server, have the same issue (it says <server name> is no longer available when I select travel north. I recheck the settings, and they are all different numbers again.....