Garrick

I don't know where else to put this but after not logging for a few months, I logged in today and only to find that all of my Mind & Body skills have been reset to 20.00 Is this normal if you've been logged out of Wurm Online for an extended period of time? I worked really hard getting my mind logic all the way up before taking a break and now it's completely gone, I can't build anything substantial, I can't ride my wagons or my boats...... So ..... yeah.... is this intended for those skills to go down like that?

So what exactly is that deal with getting money back with disbanding? I can just choose to disband with x amount of money in the coffers & get the money back? Where would the money actually go to if I disband the deed where my bank is? I started early September, logged 34 days, 9 hrs, 29 minutes of near-constant sleep-deprived playtime. I chose Chaos at first because I wanted PvP, then I got there and saw the landing zone was basically just empty with zero people on local and there wasn't even any nice buildings to look at or help me get started. It looked like literally a barren wasteland. So I hopped in the epic portal (which really should definitely not have been at that landing zone to begin with.....) and every time I go back through an epic portal, I'm forced to be right back in the dead, useless space, but at least epic still has some nice stuff to get me going around their landing zones. The money I've spent on this deed also includes needing to buy Farwalker stones so that I can easily navigate to my other off-deed properties to consolidate everything Rod of Transmutation so i can get the resources that I want to work with and do what I want to do rather than what the land wants me to use Spirit templars Also, I spend additional money so that I can have the option to keep money in the coffers for sustainability & to have enough to resize as I want to Top QL equipment because let's face it I can't do anything substantial or meaningful with low QL items

Based on the documentation available, I was under the impression that I could establish specific permissions for trusted friends to enter/pass gates/manage item if I wanted to. If my friends betray me, that is on me, not the game. I should have the right to choose what friends would betray me and which ones would not betray me. I also believed that the in-game settlement reputation system could be used to protect specific people. Perhaps, it was foolish afterall to assume that the only person in that feature would be for guards to kill on sight. I was looking at how that feature could be used for positive numbers for positive results.

I honestly think if I'm paying my own money to have a settlement with my friends, and the game will not allow me to let any friend I want into my settlement, I want a refund and I'll go back to not having a deed at all because it's not worth it to pay money to protect my stuff if I can't let any friend that i want in. It's not worth it at all. I need this fixed, or someone refund the $165.16 USD that I paid within the last 24 hours to get this settlement set up . This money is not worth it anymore if I can't enjoy this game with my friends

no option to even try playing PvE since it's either Epic or Chaos server and cant go to anywhere else. Literally, we go through an epic portal and can only get to Chaos server... with 0 skills to make a boat to move elsehwere... We're not training skills for the purpose of having them taken away again with a move to a PvE from Chaos. That's stupid. We just want to play together and the game is making it impossible to play how we want as friends

I do this already, but I cannot allow any friend from an "enemy kingdom" to visit. I cannot give any friend that I want permission to enter my own settlement that I pay for using real money. I just want any friend that I have to be able to come in and stay and be a friend......

Simply put, If I am using real life money to pay for my own settlement, then I should have the right to allow anyone I want to come visit.

Ditto, it's really distracting for certain playstyles to the point of making it unplayable without the option to turn it off at will