I honestly don't believe this is a huge issue. When I first started, I wanted a place that had at least mine started, and flat enough for me to start. When I gained new skills then I started looking for a place I could shape myself. You now have 3 new servers and there's still plenty of land that has not been touched. Hell if you come on Xanadu there are still places that has not been touched. If you're looking for ocean views that would be where the problem is. Wurm allows its players to shape the land with little to no restrictions at all. If you are looking for a spot not touched by others you could go inland, build a cannel that leads to an ocean, but you may run into someone's deed talk to them, work together most if not all wouldn't mind you building a cannel that leads to the inside main lands (some may depending on where you want to build it) My point is your argument is moot.
Yes I'm sure there are some players that have your point of view but really I'm thinking that number is very low, out of 100 players new and old maybe 2-3 want virgin lands and that is pushing it. here is the Xanadu map http://wurmonlinemaps.com/xanadu.. I see plenty of open space to build (if you want the ocean then its a bit more work) most ocean spots that are left are rocky areas, well guess what you can shape the rock and make it yours (virgin land) this is the same for Candence, Melody, and Harmony. I left Melody because I wanted to go back to my home on Xanadu and there was plenty of ocean area's still open, but with rock so a bit more work. The Dev team cannot continue to make more severs and they do not involve themselves in everyday mundane stuff. Goodluck in your search. You may have to be a bit more open minded when it comes to choosing a space.