you NEVER challenge their ruling in PUBLIC!!!. if you have questions or need to challenge a ruling you do it via pm/email.
the more i read the rest the more i see another individual with social interaction issues in an online place. our hearts go out to you blaze
ok, half the reason I decided to just stop earlier is due to my personal 'wall of text' issue. i wont go into anything other then to say your post @Blazecraze was mighty difficult to deal with. the other half of the reason was cause I'm sure you wouldn't actually get it - but ill try.
Staff don't have to report everything nor would I expect them to - people have a right to privacy you know. safety matters.
keep in mind that when it comes to the internet, we are basically letting a small part of 'society' in our lives. Individuals protect themselves how they see fit. yes you are going to be interacting with multiple cultures when in Wurm. you have to err on the side of caution when interacting with people sometimes. yes it may be 'imaginary', but that does not mean that the other people playing the game are not real as well.
when it comes to trolling you are missing a very large piece - not everyone has the best 'emotional control'. in fact some people have trauma that quite literally short them out to the point where they want to die. its not fun, nor pretty to look at. you need your emotional control to survive life. without it you cant drive a car, do grocery shopping, or even hold a job. 'Triggers' are a thing and there are people out there who make it their job to intentionally cause people to lose control. if you are not careful on how you interact with the 'public' you could be mistaken as one.
the other part of trolling you are missing is that you need to separate the world of 'Wurm' from real life, and figure out which is going on in chat at the same time.
when it comes to point A on the trolling list, think of it as: don't attack someone's individuality, and you let them talk about their own things unless they give you permission to do so otherwise.
most of the rest of your points can be summarized down into one topic - privacy. we are supposed to keep our mouths shut about other peoples business, if we know about it, and the reason is cause everyone deserves to survive, succeed, and stay safe. you are not the only one out there trying to live life and survive it, and there are quite a few of us using Wurm to survive rl. Its not just imagination, and its not JUST a game. keep in mind not everyone is the same, there is SO much variety out there its a bit mindboggling.