If you both type /suicide and select the same location, e.g. "Newspring", to respawn at, you'll appear next to one another. I did this a few times the other day when I was lost when I started playing. You'll keep all the newbie items you started with, so you won't lose anything important, unless you've already collected some valuable items. Also, I've found these two maps useful. The first has some of the settlements marked, which you can see when you pass through them in-game (I had to disable adblock to get this one to work). The second is a topology map that is useful for getting your bearings based on geographic features. http://xanadu-wurm.rhcloud.com/http://maps.mvcomputing.co.uk/Xanadu/I just started near Newspring the other day. You can send a /tell Tyrir in-game if you need more help.